The End

I recently published my first edited book,  Labor of Love: A Literary Mama Staff Anthology ,  with  Small Harbor Publishing . It's an anthology of writing from  Literary Mama  staff over the past 20 years. It's a beautiful collection and I am proud of the writers and proud to share the book.  It seems a fitting moment, as I pondered sharing about the book here on the blog, to reflect on my life as a blogger, and acknowledge that it is time to officially end this blog.   I started blogging in about 2007, when my baby was learning to toddle, when I was learning how to be a mother and stepmother, when I was just starting to see my way as a writer. I needed it back then. I craved it. I had a variety of blog iterations--family, art, creativity, writing things I delved into. There's a freedom in blogging, a casualness, an easy familiarity that's lacking (for me anyway) in other kinds of writing. I loved blogging and the words came pouring out.  Ove...
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Balance Wednesday- Nap

A few chapters ago The Artist's Way broached the question about scarcity and luxury. I know what feels scarce, but luxury? I had no idea.

I avoided monetary issues for the moment, and thought about the thing I do not have enough -- time. My morning is full of early wakings and rushed drives across town. I battle the fatigue with coffee and fill my time with scattered blogging and writing, and researching and running errands. There are not enough hours in the morning until the time comes again when the school bus arrives and my focus must return to my little boy. Then I can alternate between filling his needs and working to keep the house in some semblance of order. Then it is dinner time, relax on the couch time, and return to bed time. The days were flying by along this path at an unprecedented rate. Enough time, while a nice goal, was not feasible.

When Cedar was a baby, I followed the golden new mommy rule and napped when baby napped. I was endlessly sleep deprived, but able to counteract that with regular naps. I was in full mommy mode, and not pursuing my own career goals. These days a nap is a rare and luxurious option. To take time out from pursuing my creative goals to sleep seems crazily out of the question. 

One day not too long ago, I was so exhausted, I gave in and just did it anyway. I crawled into bed, justifying my laziness with thoughts that I would just rest and plan things in my head. Moments later I was fast asleep. In the middle of the day!

I awoke a brief twenty minutes later, calm and relaxed. Lazing in bed, gazing out the window, my work was still there waiting for me, the school bus would arrive soon, I had not accomplished a thing, and it was all ok. The luxury I experienced when waking from that nap in the middle of a school day was worth a fortune. 
By doing the very thing that seemed so contrary to what I was after- stretching out, taking a break, sleeping- I found what luxury means to me. Now luxury is suddenly at my fingertips, and I know on the days when I nap, there will be plenty of time.

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Sue Heavenrich said…
cat naps are a great way to energize! just ask the cats...
March 20, 2013 at 10:59 AM
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